Megaglomp

More stuff going down. I don't know what to do about it, I really don't. I can't just sit by and not get involved in things that I fear are going to start tearing at the edges of the place where I feel most comfortable. I'm gonna say how I feel here because I don't feel I can say anymore there without causing more problems...

One of our users has become convinced that we all hate her, particularly us mods, after she got in a few arguments...I know it's not true but she keeps insisting it is.

I said, No-one hates you. Dissagreeing with someone and hating someone are different things.

It's kind of unfair to say that everyone hates you when obviously they don't as I'm sure there are alot of people here who've never said a word against you. And saying that the mods in particular hate you just becasue you got in an argument with someone who happened to be a mod is silly. As a mod, I'm hurt by that, because I don't hate you.

It's not your fault that not everyone agrees with you, and it's never going to be that way. If they can't find a way to say things poltiely, don't take it personally. At least you know that you're the better person for not being rude.

As for the older and wiser thing...it's not age that gives someone the right to be respected.

People are people, we're always going to have problems with eachother as everyone is different. But that doens't mean we can't solve anything.

Please don't leave. you'll be missed alot.

She said,
Well, mustang, it seems like you hate me. You, Tank and Yukichan specifically.

And everytime I mention that I don't feel respected, I get some lame excuse about how I don't deserve to be respected. I'm sorry, but... the only way to receive respect is to give it. And I've given plenty, and feel like I don't get any back from you (SM and Tank). Everything I say is wrong. Nothing I say is right, just because I don't agree. You aren't being very fair.

It's freaking me out. I feel kinda dizzy actually. Cold, despite the radiator burning my feet. I'll start worrying when the shaking starts.

Partly, I'm hurt to think that anyone thinks I hate them, especially someone I don't. I try to just ignore people I don't like.

It also seems like it's almost like she wants us to hate her. Seeign problems that aren't there and ignoring people who say they like her. I didn't say anything mean. I asked her to say exactly what her problem with the site was so it could be sorted, instead of telling her there are no problems, shut up.

The other part of me is annoyed. I can tell that she has problems, but I can't abide people who take problems out on other people or use them as an excuse to get at people.

I really try not to do it myself...I'd be horrified if someone told me I'd been taking my issues out on them. I hate leaning on people. Hence the angsty blogging. I'm telling my problems to myself.

As insulting as he's been to me... yeah... I'm pretty sure I want to leave. Because after he's treated me like this... well... I can't stay here if he isn't dealt with.

Dealt with? Like how? And how can we justify "dealing" with Tank for insulting Min when she was arguing too?

Why are people so confusing? I hate people. I want to sit here forever and talk to the walls instead.